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		<title>Greenbelt 2010 &#8211; Thoughts &amp; Highlights</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 10:19:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I previously mentioned this year Jo and myself headed to Greenbelt after the encouragement of a good friend and the temptation from Greenbelt of a free youth worker ticket paid off so on Friday we packed up the car and headed down to Cheltenham Racecourse. We arrived at around 12 and joined the queue [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://www.greenbelt.org.uk/images/greenbelt_.png" alt="" width="200" height="42" />As I previously mentioned this year Jo and myself headed to Greenbelt after the encouragement of a good friend and the temptation from Greenbelt of a free youth worker ticket paid off so on Friday we packed up the car and headed down to Cheltenham Racecourse.</p>
<p>We arrived at around 12 and joined the queue of people waiting to get in&#8230;after driving between holding bays, waiting an hour then moving again we finally pitched up around 3&#8230;sorted ourselves out and headed to the festival village.</p>
<p>I have to say I went to Greenbelt not knowing what to expect&#8230;my more liberal friends love it and my more conservative friends would offer advise to steer clear and so I headed to Greenbelt with curiosity, an open-mind and with the idea that I&#8217;d be able to make a more informed judgment on the festival.</p>
<p><strong>Ethos</strong></p>
<p>For starters Greenbelt has this massive social justice ethos going on&#8230;pretty much every trailer had Fairtrade hot drinks and you couldn&#8217;t turn a corner or enter a marquee without someone trying to sell you some Divine chocolate or a ethically traded/fairtrade t-shirt&#8230;there was even a t-shirt with the Tesco logo but with &#8216;Tesco&#8217; replaced by &#8216;Fiasco&#8217;&#8230;awesome (I didn&#8217;t buy one!).</p>
<p>Add into the mix numerous stalls and seminars on human rights and justice plus a sign around every corner reminding you that if Greenbelt was Gaza there would be x amount of you&#8230;insert starving or something to that effect here.</p>
<p>I have to say that I really related to this ethos and loved the Fairtrade, ethical aspect&#8230;especially when the Fairtrade chocolate was cheaper than in the shops!</p>
<p><strong>Music</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1523" title="Back Camera" src="http://marktiddy.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/IMG_0401-300x224.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="224" />The main thing that attracted me to Greenbelt was &#8216;The King Blues&#8217; and &#8216;Luke Leighfield&#8217; who would play gigs during the weekend&#8230;however throughout the weekend I caught some other bands too including an acoustic and mainstage set from Jars of Clay.</p>
<p>For me it was this mix of contemporary Christian music and more secular music that really made Greenbelt great&#8230;as a musician and huge fan of music I don&#8217;t want to watch 70 bands play &#8216;Shine Jesus Shine&#8217; slightly differently, I want decent music and the balance of Jars of Clay&#8217;s &#8216;worship&#8217; music and &#8216;The King Blues&#8217; acoustic meets ska meets punk filled with the cry for social justice which lies at the heard of Christianity gave Greenbelt the right mix of music.</p>
<p><strong>Other Seminars</strong></p>
<p>Truth be told I didn&#8217;t make it to many seminars and spent a fair amount of time catching up with old friends who happened to be there (another aspect of Greenbelt that I loved!). I did, however manage to catch Mark Yaconelli&#8217;s 1st talk which was engaging, interesting and challenging, I attended a seminar for musicians called &#8216;DIY or DIE&#8217; which gave some interesting pointers on how to promote your own music and some insights into the professional industry and I also found myself in a talk about how homosexuals were being persecuted in Africa and how (from what I was told) it was mostly Rowan Williams fault!</p>
<p>This mix of seminars perhaps sums up the range of Greenbelt&#8230;there was also lots of seminars on other subjects such as loving your enemies, confidence for women, Fairtrade and seminars aimed at lesbian, gay or bisexual Christians.</p>
<p>Whilst the broad range of topics being discussed would make some Christians say &#8216;<strong><em>noooo can&#8217;t have that at a Christian festival</em></strong>&#8216; I found that (regardless of the rights and wrongs&#8230;which I&#8217;m not going in to) Greenbelt was taking you beyond being spoon-fed. If you go to Spring Harvest you know what you&#8217;re going to get&#8230;.you need not question what&#8217;s being talked about because it&#8217;s all very &#8216;nice middle-class church&#8217; whereas Greenbelt challenges you&#8230;.I wouldn&#8217;t say I&#8217;ve come back with different views but it&#8217;s certainly made me think.</p>
<p><strong>So&#8230;is Greenbelt Christian?</strong></p>
<p>The best way to finish this blog post seemed to be by asking an ambiguous questions (with a hint of the rhetorical) and not actually answering it! However&#8230;</p>
<p>The actions of Jesus show Him meeting those society didn&#8217;t like&#8230;the dishonest&#8230;the prostitutes&#8230;the mentally unstable&#8230;or as Scum of the Earth church put it &#8216;the left out and right brained&#8217; and for me Greenbelt did just that. The Sunday service by the main stage was a pretty conservative church service&#8230;nothing controversial at all however it was attended by thousands of people who the general church would exclude&#8230;those who (for whatever reason) just don&#8217;t fit into mainstream church.</p>
<p>Regardless of your opinion of Greenbelt the organisers have managed to create a Christian festival that people are actually comfortable inviting their non-Christian friends too&#8230;.I could see anyone I know who isn&#8217;t Christian having an awesome time at Greenbelt and discovering a bit of what God is about&#8230;maybe it&#8217;s just the addition of a beer tent or maybe it&#8217;s the diversity of Greenbelt but anyone is genuinely welcome at the festival.</p>
<p>Contrast this to Spring Harvest and I think I know what comes out on top&#8230;yes perhaps there are some things at Greenbelt which aren&#8217;t &#8220;Christian&#8221; but the festival is honest with people, open and accessible.</p>
<p><strong>So would I go back next year?</strong> Yes&#8230;.I think Greenbelt is what you make it&#8230;if you want to rant about the liberalness of Greenbelt then you can choose to attend the seminars that will make you explode&#8230;if you want a nice, safe Greenbelt then you can attend the seminars that match that&#8230;if you want to watch some good music and drink some beer then you can even do that&#8230;it&#8217;s what you make it!</p>
<p><strong><em>Who wants to come with us next year?</em></strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Aug 2010 17:03:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in 2001 as a family we tuned into &#8216;Popstars&#8217;&#8230;a new concept as far as TV Shows went&#8230;as the weeks went on we went from seeing people audition to finally ending up with &#8216;Hear Say&#8217;. The show continued introducing us to the band as they recorded their first single and filmed their first music video [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:M9HbkDL4C-XQXM:http://http://www.cuckoodesign.com/blog/http://www.cuckoodesign.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/x-factor-logo2.jpg&amp;t=1" alt="" width="177" height="177" />Back in 2001 as a family we tuned into &#8216;Popstars&#8217;&#8230;a new concept as far as TV Shows went&#8230;as the weeks went on we went from seeing people audition to finally ending up with &#8216;Hear Say&#8217;.</p>
<p>The show continued introducing us to the band as they recorded their first single and filmed their first music video before their song hit the shelves&#8230;pure and simple!</p>
<p>I have to admit that whilst no longer own the single I did buy it&#8230;I never owned the album (but back then I only really brought singles).</p>
<p>Popstars as a television show, wasn&#8217;t bad&#8230;it was fun and gave you an insight into how the life of a pop star begins&#8230;and I guess after two albums from Hear Say we saw how it ended!</p>
<p>Then X Factor came on the scene and sadly 6 years later it still takes up our Saturday nights for a third of the year. The problem with the X Factor is that it&#8217;s just not very good&#8230;.and nor are the contestants!</p>
<p>Sure Alexander Burke can sing&#8230;I wouldn&#8217;t buy her music but she has a cracking voice&#8230;in turn JLS seem to have done well for themselves and generally each of the winners have bagged themselves a number one (one of which wasn&#8217;t a Christmas number 1 <a href="http://marktiddy.co.uk/2009/12/20/christmas-number-1-is-ratm/" target="_blank">thanks to the RATM campaign</a>).</p>
<p>Last night as the new series began I didn&#8217;t tune in but I did catch the hype on BBC&#8217;s breakfast and in turn saw 1 act which pretty much sums up the X Factor.</p>
<p>This act consisted of a lady giving a rendition of Duffy&#8217;s &#8216;Mercy&#8217; which can only be described as a cross between that famous scene from &#8216;When Harry Met Sally&#8217; and the noises someone would make as they went through the transformation between man and werewolf (or Jekyll and Hyde). Despite having buttons all 3 judges let her carry on before putting her through!</p>
<p>Now I&#8217;m all for novel acts but she wasn&#8217;t an act&#8230;she&#8217;s wasn&#8217;t a singer she was just a nutter who (truth be told) probably needs to be introduced to Jedward and locked away with them in some padded cell where the world will never hear them again!</p>
<p>For me it sums up the X Factor&#8230;it&#8217;s not about music it&#8217;s about 2 things:</p>
<p><strong>1 &#8211; Entertainment </strong>- Ridiculous acts get through so people tune in again&#8230;fair enough and we know they won&#8217;t win but kinda defies the whole point of a talent show&#8230;it&#8217;s like the holiday camp talent shows where the 2 year old who managed half of &#8216;mary had a little lamb&#8217; goes through just because she looked &#8216;cute&#8217;.</p>
<p><strong>2 &#8211; Simon Cowel&#8217;s Pocket </strong>- The biggest winner from the X Factor is Simon&#8230;he pockets a nice tidy sum from Christmas sales hyped up by the X Factor and all he has to do for that is to record a middle-of-the-road single and promise them an album at some point. Awful as he is Joe McElderry (or whatever his name as) proves that once the Christmas money&#8217;s made no-one cares&#8230;afterall what&#8217;s he doing now?</p>
<p>So anyway there&#8217;s my rant&#8230;I won&#8217;t be tuning in but I will take part in whatever the campaign is that stops Simon bagging a number one!</p>
<p>To finish here&#8217;s a song called &#8216;The Next Big Thing&#8217; by MxPx&#8230;I think it sums it up nicely<br />
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2010 10:48:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Next Friday Jo and myself (plus a various others we know) head to Cheltenham Racecourse for Greenbelt. For those who&#8217;ve haven&#8217;t heard of Greenbelt it&#8217;s probably the most unique Christian festival that happens in the UK. I&#8217;ve heard it described by some as &#8216;fantastic&#8217; and others as &#8216;liberal&#8217; so it should be an interesting experience. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://www.greenbelt.org.uk/images/greenbelt_.png" alt="" width="200" height="42" />Next Friday Jo and myself (plus a various others we know) head to Cheltenham Racecourse for Greenbelt. For those who&#8217;ve haven&#8217;t heard of Greenbelt it&#8217;s probably the most unique Christian festival that happens in the UK. I&#8217;ve heard it described by some as &#8216;fantastic&#8217; and others as &#8216;liberal&#8217; so it should be an interesting experience.</p>
<p>Perhaps one of the most unique things about Greenbelt is that it doesn&#8217;t have an exclusively Christian line-up&#8230;for example one of the headlining bands are The King Blues&#8230;this wider variety of music is something I&#8217;m really looking forward to&#8230;there&#8217;s only so many Matt Redman clones you can bare to watch!</p>
<p>Also in the musical line-up who I&#8217;m anticipating seeing is Luke Leighfield&#8230;a Ben Folds style musician from Southampton (Luke&#8217;s album &#8216;Have you got heart&#8217; is <a href="http://lukeleighfield.bandcamp.com/" target="_blank">free here</a> and well worth downloading) and some worship being led by Andy Flannagan which should be a refreshing change.</p>
<p>The speakers include Mark Yaconelli and there&#8217;s also some interesting panels on the line-up including &#8216;Musician: how to do it yourself&#8217; and &#8216;Is Meat murdering the planet&#8217;.</p>
<p>Alongside all this there seems to be plenty of other stuff going on&#8230;including a beer tent (the place I believe Jesus himself would be hanging out!). I&#8217;m really looking forward to the experience and being challenged but also having some time out to enjoy good music.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll do a full blog round-up on Greenbelt after I&#8217;ve showered and reflected on the festival!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[So Jo and myself have got married, been on honeymoon, received all the wedding gifts, received some amazing photos which we&#8217;ve put in frames, written thank you cards and received our wedding video (on a complete tangent if you&#8217;re getting married avoid Clearview wedding videos in Caister at all costs&#8230;worst, most unprofessional video I&#8217;ve ever [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://marktiddy.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/joTiddy_0054.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1506" title="joTiddy_0054" src="http://marktiddy.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/joTiddy_0054-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="199" height="300" /></a>So Jo and myself have got married, been on honeymoon, received all the wedding gifts, received some amazing photos which we&#8217;ve put in frames, written thank you cards and received our wedding video (on a complete tangent if you&#8217;re getting married avoid Clearview wedding videos in Caister at all costs&#8230;worst, most unprofessional video I&#8217;ve ever seen&#8230;but it&#8217;s okay we&#8217;re making our own so not remotely bothered!) and for all intensive purposes everything wedding related is done.</p>
<p>However throughout the process of planning a wedding and all the learning we&#8217;ve done throughout I&#8217;ve wanted to finish it all off by writing a blog about my perspective of planning a wedding and maybe even throw in some helpful advice for those who may end up planning one in time to come.</p>
<p><strong>The Beginning&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>So we got engaged last July in Italy and knew that we wanted to get married this year&#8230;in fact we&#8217;d pretty much picked a date before we were even engaged! During our second week in Italy (the week after our engagement) our friends Tim and Wendy came out to stay in a nearby villa with their daughters and naturally having seen the engagement on Twitter they offered congratulations and advice.</p>
<p>There have been two pieces of advice that helped us immensely throughout the wedding planning and the first came from Tim in Italy. Being a minister Tim has helped many couples as they&#8217;ve prepared for their wedding and his advice to us was simply &#8216;<strong>be selfish&#8217;</strong>, informing us that there&#8217;s so many people who have preconceptions about how a wedding &#8216;should&#8217; be that it&#8217;s easy to get bogged down trying to please everyone and that you need to remember that it&#8217;s <strong>your wedding</strong> not anyone elses.</p>
<p>This advice was enforced by a few other married friends of ours too and certainly proved absolutely invaluable&#8230;it meant we had to do some difficult things and make some difficult choices but looking back whilst we&#8217;d change the attitude of some towards us during our wedding planning I wouldn&#8217;t change any of the decisions we made in planning our wedding.</p>
<p><strong>Generation Gap</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://marktiddy.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Tiddy_0145.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1502" title="Tiddy_0145" src="http://marktiddy.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Tiddy_0145-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a>It&#8217;s amazing how weddings differ and I guess what was fairly unusual (historically) about our wedding was that Jo and myself did all of the planning ourselves, between us we designed table decorations, picked colours, designed invites and did pretty much everything in between. For me this joint effort really reminded us of our similarities&#8230;there weren&#8217;t arguments about ideas it all just came together organically. There was so much unity between us in our planning Jo said it seemed odd buying a dress without me!</p>
<p>As we flicked through the photos last week and reminisced on the day Jo glanced at the image of the room and remarked &#8216;that&#8217;s what success looks like&#8217;.</p>
<p><strong>Involving Friends!</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://marktiddy.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/stTiddy_0138.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1508" title="stTiddy_0138" src="http://marktiddy.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/stTiddy_0138-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="199" height="300" /></a>One of the nicest things about our wedding was the amount of our friends that were involved. As part of the service we invited a selection of friends from all the parts of our lives to pray for us which was a really special moment, we had friends leading worship in a band, Stuart being our master of ceremonies and leading some games (the best reception idea ever, I might add!), and Steve driving is very nice Audi as a wedding car.</p>
<p>On the other side we also seemed to have a collection of people involved who were also Christian, our flowers were done by the churches&#8217; flower guild, the cake baked by a lady at my parents church and our photographer went to a friend of Jo&#8217;s church but was also a professional photographer (<a href="http://www.bexphotography.co.uk/" target="_blank">http://www.bexphotography.co.uk</a>&#8230;highly recommended&#8230;fantastic photos and top bloke).</p>
<p>On top of this Tony who led the service has known me since I was 11 and known Jo a few years too as we&#8217;ve gone to midnight mass and led their youth work on the church weekend away on one occasion.</p>
<p>All of this really made the day mean so much more&#8230;if you can get mates involved it&#8217;s fantastic&#8230;don&#8217;t get caught up with professionals get caught up with what means something to you!</p>
<p><strong>Wedding Preparation<br />
</strong></p>
<p>The most difficult thing to find time for when planning a wedding over distance was time for wedding preparation&#8230;we found a couple of opportunities. One in the form of a fantastic afternoon with St Andrews&#8217; Church and the second on a lovely evening with Phil and Christine (the minister and his wife of Jo&#8217;s Sheffield church).</p>
<p>We&#8217;d also set out to read &#8216;The Marriage Book&#8217;&#8230;which we failed miserably!</p>
<p><strong>My Final Advice&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Whilst I could ramble on forever about our wedding and preparation, our struggles and celebrations there&#8217;s just a couple of things I&#8217;d like to finish with&#8230;firstly my top 4 pieces of advice for planning a wedding:</p>
<p><strong>1. Be Selfish </strong>- You&#8217;d be amazed at who has what ideas about weddings but you need to be able to tell people to butt-out, ask yourself what the two of you want as a couple and stick to that. For us this involved making some difficult decisions and discovering sides of people that neither of us liked but we know in doing that we were able to have the wedding we wanted and not be looking back now with regrets (thank you to all our friends who listened to us and prayed for us in our difficult situations)</p>
<p><strong>2. Personalise! </strong>- Forget tradition&#8230;as an addition to advice 1 it&#8217;s your day so plan what you want&#8230;I hope that people walked away from our wedding saying &#8216;that was very Jo and Mark&#8217; so make that you&#8217;re aim&#8230;and plan together (as a couple), you probably won&#8217;t regret it.</p>
<p><strong>3. Don&#8217;t Be Afraid To Ask </strong>- Money is a massive issue with weddings and we saved some by having people we knew get involved whether it was cars or cakes and actually in having people we knew do things it made the day mean a lot more. There&#8217;s nothing like having a good friend drive you from the church in his car&#8230;if nothing else you don&#8217;t have to start the awkward conversation with &#8216;Been busy?&#8217;.</p>
<p><strong>4. Make Time For Yourselves </strong>- Jo and myself spent a year pretty much just talking weddings and probably neglected us too much&#8230;try and make time for things other than weddings. I once heard someone say that for every 1 hour of planning you should have an hour for yourself&#8230;it&#8217;s far more difficult than it sounds!</p>
<p><em><strong>Finally </strong></em>to finish this massive blog post I want to publicly thank my parents who were fantastic throughout the whole wedding process&#8230;they visited the venue, painted twigs, created a &#8216;wedding room&#8217; in their house and were genuinely fantastic.</p>
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		<title>Update</title>
		<link>http://marktiddy.co.uk/2010/08/13/update-7/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Aug 2010 15:23:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey all, I&#8217;ve updated my template from the one I designed to plug my album&#8230;think of it as a sign of things to come in the next few weeks&#8230;I&#8217;m planning to write a few new posts and get back into blogging again properly. Until then&#8230;Mark]]></description>
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<p>I&#8217;ve updated my template from the one I designed to plug my album&#8230;think of it as a sign of things to come in the next few weeks&#8230;I&#8217;m planning to write a few new posts and get back into blogging again properly.</p>
<p>Until then&#8230;Mark</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 10:19:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As followers on Twitter will know we received our wedding photos this week. The best thing about our wedding photographer was that unlike many others who give you a handful of photos and no digital versions we got an entire disc of over 300 edited photos from Bex Photography giving us an amazing choice of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As followers on Twitter will know we received our wedding photos this week. The best thing about our wedding photographer was that unlike many others who give you a handful of photos and no digital versions we got an entire disc of over 300 edited photos from Bex Photography giving us an amazing choice of options of what to do with our photos.</p>
<p>I put them all online yesterday which you can <a href="http://marktiddy.co.uk/photography/?album=WeddingPhotosOfficial" target="_self">view online here</a> however my favourite by a long shot is this one (although I don&#8217;t really know why!)</p>
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		<title>Sermon Swearing</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Aug 2010 20:05:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday as we boarded the ferry to journey back to France after a week&#8217;s honeymoon I purchased &#8216;The Sun&#8217; in order to catch up with the news in a format that my 5 hours-worth-of-driving brain could handle and it wasn&#8217;t the &#8216;coming out&#8217; of X-Factor flop Joe McElderry the caught my eye (although his coming [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yesterday as we boarded the ferry to journey back to France after a week&#8217;s honeymoon I purchased &#8216;The Sun&#8217; in order to catch up with the news in a format that my 5 hours-worth-of-driving brain could handle and it wasn&#8217;t the &#8216;coming out&#8217; of X-Factor flop Joe McElderry the caught my eye (although his coming out was a blatant case of his manager saying &#8216;no one knows who you are&#8230;confess to something quick!) but it was<a href="http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3075925/Vicar-preaches-Lords-swear.html" target="_blank"> this article </a>titled &#8216;Vicar Preaches Lord&#8217;s Swear&#8217;.</p>
<p>In the article (which I suspect puts the chap slightly out of context&#8230;however I couldn&#8217;t find his e-mail address online to ask him myself) Rev Michael Land who&#8217;s 67 suggests that ministers need to swear in their sermons in order to connect more with people..here&#8217;s an extract;</p>
<blockquote><p>The vicar, who preached for 28 years in London&#8217;s East End said: &#8220;I&#8217;d  have no  problem using the F-word in a sermon if it meant I was connecting with  people. The number attending services is falling and the church needs to   modernise so it doesn&#8217;t fall behind completely.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;If that means swearing I say, &#8216;Why bloody not?&#8217; People place Jesus  on a  pedestal. They&#8217;d probably be shocked by his language. He was poor and  lacked  any real education.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Married dad-of-three Mr Land also told how he used the F-word on a  motorist  who cut him up. He said: &#8220;I wound my window down and said, &#8216;Why don&#8217;t  you  learn to f***ing drive&#8217;. He just walked away.&#8221;</p>
<div>Read more: <a href="http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3075925/Vicar-preaches-Lords-swear.html#ixzz0vNzQkany">http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3075925/Vicar-preaches-Lords-swear.html#ixzz0vNzQkany</a></div>
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<div>I&#8217;m not going to get onto the rights or wrongs of the minister (or any Christian) opening a window and swearing at a motorist however his comparison of swearing in sermons to &#8216;connect with people&#8217; to Jesus swearing is, in my opinion, completely off.</div>
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<div>I&#8217;m not going to say anything about whether I think Jesus swore or not (although some theologians would say that &#8216;brood of vipers&#8217; was about the nastiest swear word that you could say at the time) for two reasons. Firstly I think it would spoke unnecessary debate and secondly a &#8216;swear&#8217; word is a relative term&#8230;words we use may not be offensive or swearing to others&#8230;for example there is a place in Australia named the f word&#8230;is this a town with a swear-word for a name or merely a different use of the word?</div>
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<div>However even if we take the approach that Jesus occasionally used &#8216;extreme&#8217; language then we need to look at the context in which He used these words. Jesus didn&#8217;t infact aim to be popular in any way, shape or form and so his use of language wasn&#8217;t to become a popular figure but to challenge society. The &#8216;brood of vipers&#8217; incident is an example of Jesus pointing out what was wrong at the time&#8230;something that could only be expressed using such words however using swearing to become popular seems completely wrong to me.</div>
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<div>Perhaps the most fundamental floor in what the minister has to say is that adding swearing into services is by no means going to bring anyone into church&#8230;what are we going to promote? Come to church&#8230;we swear just like you do? It&#8217;s stupid!</div>
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<div>What the church needs to do rather than focusing on becoming more like the world around is to focus on becoming more like the Saviour they claim to follow&#8230;in the world&#8230;not of the world.</div>
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<div>(If anyone knows the minister and has his e-mail I&#8217;d love to be able to drop a line to him to see if he was misrepresented)</div>
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		<title>4 Days to go&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://marktiddy.co.uk/2010/07/12/4-days-to-go/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 21:05:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark Tiddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like ages since I clicked onto this blog to actually post anything (although my blog tells me that in reality it&#8217;s only 8 days)&#8230;however it&#8217;s been a very busy 8 days! In 4 days time (Saturday) Jo and me get married! It barely seems like yesterday that we got engaged in Italy and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It feels like ages since I clicked onto this blog to actually post anything (although my blog tells me that in reality it&#8217;s only 8 days)&#8230;however it&#8217;s been a very busy 8 days!</p>
<p>In 4 days time (Saturday) Jo and me get married! It barely seems like yesterday that we got engaged in Italy and after much planning the &#8216;Jo/Mark&#8217; wedding plans are nearly done&#8230;I made a last phone call today to the reception venue, sent a few final e-mails, checked out cake progress and spoke to our DJ and other than writing a grooms speech (in which I&#8217;m told I can&#8217;t make incest jokes&#8230;although I thought pointing out having 2 sets of parents at a Norfolk wedding being novel would be amusing) we&#8217;re ready!</p>
<p>Jo&#8217;s been doing a few last minute bits and pieces of prep too and the last major things now are just to meet with Steve (who&#8217;s kindly driving us) and have a rehearsal on Thursday night, then doing a few bits Friday and eventually having a few beers with Joel and some others Friday evening.</p>
<p>Whilst I&#8217;m sure wedding photos will surface on this blog Jo and myself are also planning to write a &#8216;wedding blog of 2 accounts&#8217; in the next few weeks where we shall try to be as open and honest about our experience of planning a wedding&#8230;hopefully adding some tips, frustrations and an insight into how we planned our wedding.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve also been thinking about doing a blog on spiritual warfare and how it linked into our wedding prep which may surface sometime next week if I have time to write it before the wedding&#8230;it may sound like an odd combination but it feels like it makes sense!</p>
<p>Anyway there&#8217;s a brief wedding/life update&#8230;if you&#8217;re coming on Saturday please don&#8217;t bring confetti&#8230;we have bubble&#8230;and pray for us (and good weather).</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jul 2010 23:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Regular readers of this blog will know that I&#8217;m quite an Apple fan&#8230;I converted to Macs 2 and a half years ago and would never look back&#8230;my iPod has kept me company through many-a-journey and nothing out there compares to the Apple operating system and mp3 players. However the one product I was never sold [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1476" title="iPhone 4" src="http://marktiddy.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Screen-shot-2010-07-04-at-23.43.40-181x300.png" alt="" width="181" height="300" /> Regular readers of this blog will know that I&#8217;m quite an Apple fan&#8230;I converted to Macs 2 and a half years ago and would never look back&#8230;my iPod has kept me company through many-a-journey and nothing out there compares to the Apple operating system and mp3 players.</p>
<p>However the one product I was never sold to by Apple was the iPhone&#8230;.not that it was a bad product but it just didn&#8217;t have the features. When I upgraded my phone 18 months ago I went for the Sony Ericsson C905 without even considering the iPhone a competitor&#8230;my needs in a phone were simply that I wanted a decent camera (because I never remember my digital camera) and I wanted something that would work with my Mac and manage my calendar and whilst the iPhone did the latter it just didn&#8217;t have the camera or other useful features.</p>
<p>The fact remains that since releasing a phone Apple have been very clever&#8230;on paper the iPhone, iPhone 3 and iPhone 3G have never been high competitors in the phone market but because of Apples reputation and a touch screen interface that uses Android as toilet paper and considers others mere sewage somehow the other iPhones sold millions despite lacking in features.</p>
<p>This marketing and desire Apple creates reflected in my recent phone upgrade dilemma&#8230;this was before the iPhone 4 was left in a restaurant by accident and the dilemma went something like;</p>
<blockquote><p>These Android phone features are so much better (camera quality etc)&#8230;but they&#8217;re not an iPhone&#8217;</p></blockquote>
<p>So when the rumors about the iPhone 4 began and were eventually confirmed by Apple I knew that there was no other option&#8230;and so a week and a half ago on the release day of the iPhone a delivery man turned up at my house with a shiny new iPhone 4.</p>
<p><strong>The iPhone 4</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been using the iPhone 4 for just over a week now and other than &#8216;<a href="http://www.apple.com/pr/library/2010/07/02appleletter.html" target="_blank">that signal issue</a>&#8216; it&#8217;s been hassle free&#8230;.I&#8217;ve felt right at home using it from the start&#8230;even the touchscreen keyboard is easy to adapt to.</p>
<p>Whilst it would take me forever to write a post on everything I love about the iPhone 4 here are some of my favourite things&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>The Apps &#8211; </strong>The App store is jam packed with useful things&#8230;so far apps have helped me compare prices of high street products to online using the camera and barcode, they&#8217;ve helped me tune my guitar, find a song to play, look at my documents without having my laptop, check my blog and even check up some html mark-up on a website to find someone&#8217;s e-mail address&#8230;oh and I&#8217;ve read the paper too!</p>
<p><strong>Voice Control/Driving &#8211; </strong>Every phone I&#8217;ve had has claimed to have &#8216;voice dialing&#8217; however my last phone involved touching the phone to activate (even with a bluetooth headset) and both that and the one prior to that involved recording a voice tag for each contact (like I ever bothered!) and then managing to remember exactly how you pronounced their now&#8230;.<strong>not with the iPhone! </strong></p>
<p>As you drive along listening to music on the radio (which I input my iPhone to) a call comes in&#8230;my headset buzzes and the music fades out&#8230;beautiful&#8230;a nice fade.</p>
<p>As I drive and remember I need to phone someone I press the headset button, the music fades (beautiful fade!), I say &#8216;Phone Joanna&#8217; and without programming a tag it asks me if I want her mobile, home or other&#8230;all voice controlled!</p>
<p><strong>Google Maps &#8211; </strong>Okay&#8230;most phones have it but it was very useful for finding a more hidden shop in Norwich yesterday and perfect for finding a house tonight!</p>
<p><strong>Notes &#8211; </strong>The note function isn&#8217;t hidden on the iPhone which means I actually use them&#8230;especially when they sync with my mac&#8230;which means I&#8217;m saving paper on to-do lists and shopping lists!</p>
<p><strong>All in all </strong>the iPhone 4 is beautiful&#8230;the Apple bumper sorts the signal issue and adds to the beauty&#8230;the touch screen is perfect and the iPhone is becoming quite good at managing me&#8230;just call me iMark!</p>
<p>(I didn&#8217;t even mention that the camera is awesome and the HD video is stunning!)</p>
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		<title>Ministry of Journeys</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2010 10:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This topic of this post has becoming very prominent in my thoughts in the last week and a half and whilst I think my thoughts in this blog would be served better with some specific examples it just isn&#8217;t appropriate to post them (if you&#8217;ve spoke to me recently or live in South Cave you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This topic of this post has becoming very prominent in my thoughts in the last week and a half and whilst I think my thoughts in this blog would be served better with some specific examples it just isn&#8217;t appropriate to post them (if you&#8217;ve spoke to me recently or live in South Cave you probably have a pretty good idea of what I mean though).</p>
<p>Often we find that church is about a &#8216;Sunday (Spiritual?) Fix&#8217;&#8230;thousands of people turn up to church on Sundays because it&#8217;s what they&#8217;ve always done, because they believe it sorts things out for the week and secures their place in heaven or maybe even because it&#8217;s what their family have done for generations however this easily creates a separation between real life and church.</p>
<p>The difference between &#8216;church&#8217; and &#8216;real life&#8217; can be just as big for even the most committed Christians because often (sadly) church is very separated. The world provides a fix for our physical or emotional needs and the church deals with the spiritual.</p>
<p>The problem with this is it&#8217;s completely different from what Jesus did&#8230;the Message paraphrase of John 1:14 puts it like this;</p>
<blockquote><p>The Word became flesh and blood,<br />
and moved into the  neighborhood.</p></blockquote>
<p>The word<strong> incarnation</strong> was thrown around a lot during my time at Oasis and the approach Jesus took was very incarnational. He didn&#8217;t set up camp and sort out people&#8217;s spiritual needs but dealt with their emotional and physical needs too. <strong>Jesus wasn&#8217;t a one-trick pony nor a one hit wonder </strong>but a bloke who journeyed with people.</p>
<p>Journeying as a ministry is something I&#8217;ve always been aware of in my youth work&#8230;I&#8217;ve always been aware that it&#8217;s not just the spiritual aspect of the young people that matter but the physical and emotional aspects too and to do this effectively in youth ministry we need to journey with young people.</p>
<p>The same applies to anyone who&#8217;s a Christian and their relationship with others (both Christian and non-Christian), we need to journey with people&#8230;<strong>we need to cry with them, laugh with them, celebrate with them, mourn with them and truly focus on the whole person not just the spiritual. </strong>We were created to be relational beings, Jesus was relational&#8230;we need to be relational.</p>
<p>In the last week I&#8217;ve found myself on a journey within the community and school that I never expected to be on and it&#8217;s really got me thinking about the purpose of our journey&#8217;s with others and I encourage you to do the same. Let&#8217;s not have a quick fix church but a journeying church.</p>
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		<title>Isle of Wight Festival</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jun 2010 18:57:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last weekend myself, Joel, Stuart &#38; Greg headed off to the Isle of Wight Festival&#8230;boarding the half 5 ferry at Portsmouth and arrived at the picturesque island (which I haven&#8217;t visited for about 15 years) around half 6. Whilst I have managed a fair few gigs in the last 5/6 years a festival is one [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/hs513.ash1/30264_400992071567_511616567_4771064_7446797_n.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="224" />Last weekend myself, Joel, Stuart &amp; Greg headed off to the Isle of Wight Festival&#8230;boarding the half 5 ferry at Portsmouth and arrived at the picturesque island (which I haven&#8217;t visited for about 15 years) around half 6.</p>
<p>Whilst I have managed a fair few gigs in the last 5/6 years a festival is one experience I&#8217;ve never done (other than Soul Survivor which doesn&#8217;t really count). The one thing I&#8217;ve loved about the gigs I have been to though was the intimacy with the largest gig I&#8217;ve ever been to being Angels and Airwaves in the Birmingham Academy which holds probably no more than 500.</p>
<p>The Isle of Wight festival was jam packed with bands to see, strangers to talk to and over-priced drinks &amp; food to be consumed&#8230;perhaps the best thing about a festival is the ability to move between several venues and see live music everywhere!</p>
<p>During the weekend we managed to catch Ocean Colour Scene, Pink! (who was awesome!), Reef, N Dubz (who I don&#8217;t really like but they had the most amazing drummer and put on a cracking show), The Saturdays and the legend that is Paul McCartney. The one thing I&#8217;ve always wondered about larger gigs is how much of the atmosphere you lose but during his set (mostly because he is Paul McCartney) the atmosphere even with Macca less than the size of my little finger it was immense, he blasted out some Beatles tracks and a few others putting together a fantastic set!</p>
<p>All in all I loved my festival experience!</p>
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		<title>My Casino Experience</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 11:53:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Friday night I had my first Casino experience. For Lucy&#8217;s 21st a group of us headed up to the Hull branch of &#8216;Napoleons&#8217; to celebrate! The only experiences I&#8217;ve ever had of gambling come from 2 very different perspectives. The first perspective is that of the tacky gamble&#8230;I grew up being taken to holiday [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://www.destination360.com/north-america/us/nevada/images/s/nevada-silver-legacy-resort-casino.jpg" alt="" width="263" height="210" /> On Friday night I had my first Casino experience.</p>
<p>For Lucy&#8217;s 21st a group of us headed up to the Hull branch of &#8216;Napoleons&#8217; to celebrate! The only experiences I&#8217;ve ever had of gambling come from 2 very different perspectives.</p>
<p>The first perspective is that of the tacky gamble&#8230;I grew up being taken to holiday camps (which I might add I enjoyed) and spent my teenage years near Great Yarmouth and all these places are filled with amusement arcades tempting you in to throw 2p&#8217;s down a chute or to pay 20p to attempt to win a child-manufactured teddy bear from a rigged machine (yes the cranes are fixed!).</p>
<p>The second perspective is right at the other end of the scale and come from watching television shows like Hustle when they attempt to con a huge casino where people have more money than sense&#8230;dressed in their suits and using their casino jargon the Hustle team would attempt to con casino owners without being caught by the security.</p>
<p><em><strong>Thankfully Napoleons is far more like the Hustle casino than the Great Yarmouth arcades </strong></em>but it&#8217;s a very different world to that I&#8217;m used to. My parents have never really had money to throw around and being a Christian I&#8217;ve grown up with fairly sensible teaching of money yet a fair amount of those in the casino had evidently not had this upbringing.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s something very surreal about watching someone throw £50 (of tokens) on a 1 in 50 chance number on a roulette table and not be remotely phased that they&#8217;ve just lost £50&#8230;.there&#8217;s equally something surreal about watching someone win £150 and throw it straight back on.</p>
<p>The nice thing about the whole experience was that we didn&#8217;t spend the whole evening losing money but we had a very nice 3 course meal first and a few drinks (good old diet Pepsi!) before exploring the Casino area with the £5 of chips we got with our meal.</p>
<p>I guess the important thing before doing any form of gambling is to limit yourself and think sensibly about things beforehand&#8230;whilst many Christians would argue that gambling is wrong I believe the bible merely teaches that the love of money is wrong&#8230;so gambling is fine as long as you&#8217;re sensible and it doesn&#8217;t come before God (or your family&#8230;bets vs meals is silly!).</p>
<p>Armed with my £5 of chips I headed to roulette and fairly quickly got the hang of it and equally as quickly lost my &#8216;free&#8217; chips so I took some time out before spending another £5 and that was it. The roulette was fun but it was far more luck than judgment (as are many of the games in a casino).</p>
<p>So all in all I really enjoyed my Casino trip&#8230;I won&#8217;t be becoming a regular but it was a great night&#8230;certainly more sociable than a night club.</p>
<p><em><strong>and how did I do with my 2nd £5?</strong></em></p>
<p>Somehow I managed to win several times and cashed in £25 and walked away with a profit! Good times!</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jun 2010 16:52:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ever since back in January when Steve Jobs announced the iPad after many rumors anticipating the tablet device (I blogged on this here) I have been eagerly awaiting the chance to actually try one out. In my originally blog my initial thoughts of the iPad were mixed&#8230;you may remember me blogging: Whilst I think the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever since back in January when Steve Jobs announced the iPad after many rumors anticipating the tablet device (<a href="http://marktiddy.co.uk/2010/01/27/apple-event-review-ipad/" target="_blank">I blogged on this here</a>) I have been eagerly awaiting the chance to actually try one out.</p>
<p>In my originally blog my initial thoughts of the iPad were mixed&#8230;you may remember me blogging:</p>
<blockquote><p>Whilst I think the iPad is something of beauty and can fully see the  potential for users I think it’s somewhat of a niche market. I can see  it being used by commuters on their way to work and maybe it could just  about be used as a bag-sized PDA but it’s too big for a pocket and will  probably be too expensive to buy for fun (much to my disappointment).</p>
<p>However for those with money to spend I could quite easily see it as  being an alternative to sitting watching TV with a laptop…providing a  nice, slim alternative. I wish I had money to spare!</p></blockquote>
<p>To an extent I still stand by what I said in my previous post&#8230;whilst beautiful the iPad is nothing more than an expensive gadget however having been into the Apple Store in Sheffield today and had a play on one I have a few more thoughts.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://marktiddy.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/apple-tablet-keynote_033.jpg" alt="" width="229" height="219" /><strong>Usability</strong></p>
<p>As with all Apple products the interface is absolutely spot on and completely seamless and user-friendly. The best way to describe the operating system is as a larger version of the iPhone software&#8230;infact the whole iPad is very much a large iPhone but with extras!</p>
<p>The main screen (like the iPhone) has a series of buttons representing applications, a swipe on the main page and your onto the next page of applications and so on.</p>
<p>The onscreen keyboard is probably the most impressive feature of the iPad which really does make it user-friendly. The size of it is just right and the sensitivity means you can type just as effectively as you could on your laptop&#8230;.I managed to type a few lines in a document, <a href="http://twitter.com/marktiddy/status/15482841560" target="_blank">a twitter status </a>and visit a few websites with about the same amount of typos I usually make!</p>
<p><strong>Games</strong></p>
<p>One of the most impressive things was a racing game on the iPad which allowed you to steer and control speed by tilting and turning the ipad with ease&#8230;beautiful!</p>
<p><strong>Working On The Go!</strong></p>
<p>The iPad has scaled down versions of Pages, Numbers and Keynote (the Apple equivalent but much more superior versions of Microsoft Word, Excel and PowerPoint) which allow you to open and edit your documents on the move.</p>
<p><strong>So would I buy one?</strong></p>
<p>Apple have done what they did with the iPhone and have managed to create a gadget that whilst there may not <strong><em>really </em></strong>be a gap in the market for there will be one because Apple have made the iPad!</p>
<p>The iPad starts at £429 for a 16gb wifi model and goes up to £699 for the 3gs 64gb model which means the main reason I won&#8217;t be getting one is simply the price&#8230;I loved playing with it, I could see myself using it both at home and on the move (especially for meetings and escaping to coffee shops to work) but I just can&#8217;t justify the cost&#8230;especially if you get a 3g model and take into account the monthly cost of a data plan.</p>
<p><strong>The Verdict</strong></p>
<p>My verdict on the iPad is simple&#8230;it&#8217;s beautiful in design, stunning to use and is an absolutely fantastic piece of kit but unless you&#8217;ve got money to spend on something you don&#8217;t really need it&#8217;s probably not for you.</p>
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		<title>Escape This Town (My Album)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2010 21:18:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark Tiddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Before I waffle on for a bit you can download &#8216;Escape This Town&#8217; free here at bandcamp (name a price of zero) or be lovely and pay for it on amazon mp3 or iTunes Back when I was 16 and I could only play the drums (and a tiny bit of keyboard) I started song [...]]]></description>
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<p>Before I waffle on for a bit you can download &#8216;Escape This Town&#8217; <a href="http://www.marktiddy.bandcamp.com" target="_blank">free here at bandcamp</a> (name a price of zero) or be lovely and pay for it on <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Escape-This-Town/dp/B003MQ6UAI/ref=sr_shvl_album_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1274184035&amp;sr=301-1" target="_blank">amazon mp3 </a>or <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/gb/album/escape-this-town/id372796567" target="_blank">iTunes</a></p>
<p>Back when I was 16 and I could only play the drums (and a tiny bit of keyboard) I started song writing&#8230;songs were nothing more than lyrics with a drum beat however at the age of 17 I eBayed myself a cheap guitar and set to work learning to play the guitar.</p>
<p>Ever since being able to play enough chords to make a tune I spent a fair chunk of my spare time recording drums and guitars and song writing.</p>
<p>A few years back when I started my gap year in Peterborough I was encouraged to lead worship&#8230;with very little confidence in my vocal abilities I started off miles from the microphone but as confidence grew my closeness to the microphone followed.</p>
<p>Throughout the years prior to moving to Peterborough, during my degree and since beginning my new job in Yorkshire I&#8217;ve continued to write and record music to the point of having an entire album released into the world.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been thinking about this blog post for weeks and I didn&#8217;t really know how to phrase it because in reflection for me as Mark, having an album with me on every instrument plus vocals is a huge thing. 5 years ago would be allowed anywhere near my voice&#8230;now it&#8217;s out there!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not going to write much more other than a shameless plug for my album! I&#8217;ve been describing the music as &#8216;realistic Christian&#8217;&#8230;it doesn&#8217;t sound like a Christian album although some lyrics fit the bill&#8230;nor is it completely about things outside of my faith&#8230;it&#8217;s a mix of styles and sounds and even genres&#8230;flicking between pop, pop-punk, acoustic and sometimes a little heavier.</p>
<p>You can download it for <a href="http://www.marktiddy.bandcamp.com" target="_blank">free here on bandcamp</a> (by just naming a price of 0.00 and giving an e-mail address) or if you&#8217;re feeling generous you can download &#8216;Escape This Town&#8217; on <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/gb/album/escape-this-town/id372796567" target="_blank">iTunes here</a> or <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Escape-This-Town/dp/B003MQ6UAI/ref=sr_shvl_album_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1274184035&amp;sr=301-1" target="_blank">Amazon mp3 here.</a></p>
<p>I hope you enjoy it (and the blog theme to match)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m going to write some more stuff on the song meanings on <a href="http://marktiddy.tumblr.com" target="_blank">my Tumblr </a>over the next few weeks</p>
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		<title>The Tories Are In</title>
		<link>http://marktiddy.co.uk/2010/05/11/the-tories-are-in/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 21:23:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark Tiddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So this evening Gordon Brown resigned after what wasn&#8217;t really a very successful time as Prime Minister&#8230;.it&#8217;s not that he was bad at it but I feel like he was dropped in the deep end and didn&#8217;t really have the charisma for being a Prime Minister. Cameron is now our Prime Minister&#8230;however with compromise&#8230;the news [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://www.davidosler.com/cameron,%20david.jpg" alt="" width="219" height="219" /> So this evening Gordon Brown resigned after what wasn&#8217;t really a very successful time as Prime Minister&#8230;.it&#8217;s not that he was bad at it but I feel like he was dropped in the deep end and didn&#8217;t really have the charisma for being a Prime Minister.</p>
<p>Cameron is now our Prime Minister&#8230;however with compromise&#8230;the news as I type is telling me that we don&#8217;t know what deal there is between the Conservative&#8217;s and the Lib Dems but it puts them in a powerful position.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not keen on the idea of having a Conservative government and can&#8217;t help but feel it will be a bad thing for losing public services and education going down hill&#8230;not to mention youth work budgets going however I wonder if the addition of the Lib Dems will be positive for the country.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s going to be an interesting few weeks, months and maybe years&#8230;we shall see.</p>
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