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		<title>The Butterfly Circus &#8211; Short Film</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2012 19:05:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark Tiddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over the last few weeks I&#8217;ve been reading the book &#8216;Life Without Limits&#8217; by Nick Vujicic who is a Christian speaker who was born with no arms and no legs yet has managed to achieve so much. In his book he talked about appearing in the short film &#8216;The Butterfly Circus&#8217; a few years back [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Over the last few weeks I&#8217;ve been reading the book &#8216;Life Without Limits&#8217; by Nick Vujicic who is a Christian speaker who was born with no arms and no legs yet has managed to achieve so much. In his book he talked about appearing in the short film &#8216;The Butterfly Circus&#8217; a few years back which I remember seeing around the internet but never watched until this evening.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a fantastic 20 minute short film telling the story of hope and redemption and well worth watching.</p>
<p>Here it is..</p>
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		<title>The Lost Generation (where are the 20-somethings in church?)</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Apr 2012 14:20:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark Tiddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;If you&#8217;re trying to reach un-churched young adults there&#8217;s not a worse time than a sunday morning&#8221; &#8211; Dan Southerland The other day I finally got around to listening to a CD talk by Dan Southerland on leadership and vision which Tony had leant to me and as I listened the above quote jumped out. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>&#8220;If you&#8217;re trying to reach un-churched young adults there&#8217;s not a worse time than a sunday morning&#8221; &#8211; Dan Southerland</p></blockquote>
<p>The other day I finally got around to listening to a CD talk by Dan Southerland on leadership and vision which Tony had leant to me and as I listened the above quote jumped out.</p>
<p>One of my biggest frustrations with the church is that when it comes to people my own age unless you go to a &#8216;all the hype money can buy&#8217; church they don&#8217;t really exist.</p>
<p>Back in October I was involved in organising an event with <a href="http://www.twitter.com/kirkbylee" target="_blank">Lee Kirkby</a> which set out to bring 15-25&#8242;s together to talk about how the church needs to change to accommodate more young people. As part of that Lee and myself did a keynote talk as a double act and as I introduced the grim statistics concerning younger people and the church I got to the point in my talk where I said &#8216;<strong>If I&#8217;m completely honest if I didn&#8217;t work for a church I wouldn&#8217;t go&#8217;.</strong></p>
<p>At this stage I think it&#8217;s important that we distinguish the difference between Christianity and Church. <em><strong>I believe the message that Jesus brings of hope, salvation and forgiveness is more relevant in today&#8217;s society than it ever has been</strong></em>&#8230;unfortunately so often the church takes that exciting message and makes it the dullest thing in the world!</p>
<p>The talk that <strong>Dan Southerland</strong> gave was from a leadership conference a few years ago and he talked about the generation gap in the church and also how we ended up where we are in terms of Sunday morning services which can be basically summarised with;</p>
<blockquote><p>If you want to attract farmers who&#8217;ve been out milking their cows to church then 10:30 is the perfect time</p></blockquote>
<p>Our church service is set at a time which isn&#8217;t best for people, the content is often irrelevant and I think congregations are often blissfully unaware of the lack of 20 somethings in their church&#8230;for example&#8230;</p>
<p><em>At a recent church meeting the local Archdeacon asked </em>about younger people in our church, to which one retired member of our congregation replied &#8216;<em>we have lots of young couples get married in church, they come and hear their banns and lots keep on coming&#8217;.</em></p>
<p>As he spoke those words I sat there and thought about young couples in our church and couldn&#8217;t think of any because actually Jo and I are the only young couple in the church (and I&#8217;m paid to be there)!</p>
<p><strong>Shifting Our Thoughts</strong></p>
<p>Fundamentally if the church is going to attract younger people it needs to take a dramatic shift&#8230;it needs to be full of passion and communicate the message of Jesus in a relevant way. On top of that I think church needs to shift aware from Sunday services. Lots of younger people go out on a Saturday night and so is Sunday morning really the right time? (almost certainly not!).</p>
<p>Also in a world where everything for younger people is interactive is a front-led traditional hymn sandwich service appropriate or are relationships key? In a world where people tweet or Facebook on the go&#8230;where people comment on TV programmes via twitter in real time is there space for passive church teaching?</p>
<p><strong>Conclusion</strong></p>
<p>To be honest this blog hasn&#8217;t really concluded anything beyond the need for the church to change&#8230;for more young adults to come to church the whole church needs to get on board because the few younger couples/singles simply can&#8217;t do everything.</p>
<p>9 times out of 10 church is irrelevant&#8230;I love that our youth group get excited about cafe church because it&#8217;s interactive, there&#8217;s cake and nice coffee but it also saddens me that this leaves at least 2 out of 4 services branded by people (up to the age of mid-40s in our case) as &#8216;the boring service&#8217;.</p>
<p>I believe there is a place for the church&#8230;I think the support, discipleship, growth and challenges Christians receive from other Christians is absolutely essential&#8230;the relationship between Jesus and his 12 disciples really strongly backs this up&#8230;but that &#8216;church&#8217; was based on relationships.</p>
<p><em>It would be interesting to see comments on this both about your experience of church and what we can do!</em></p>
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		<title>Luke Leighfield &#8211; New Season &#8211; Review</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2012 19:45:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark Tiddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few years ago I was invited to an event on Facebook titled &#8216;Luke Leighfield&#8217;s Free Album launch&#8217; and seeing the word &#8216;free&#8217; naturally clicked onto it and ended up downloading Luke&#8217;s album &#8216;Have You Got Heart?&#8217; (Get it here) and I was sold! For those of you who&#8217;ve never heard of Luke Leighfield he [...]]]></description>
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<p>A few years ago I was invited to an event on Facebook titled &#8216;Luke Leighfield&#8217;s Free Album launch&#8217; and seeing the word &#8216;free&#8217; naturally clicked onto it and ended up downloading Luke&#8217;s album &#8216;Have You Got Heart?&#8217; (<a href="http://lukeleighfield.bandcamp.com/album/have-you-got-heart" target="_blank">Get it here</a>) and I was sold!</p>
<p>For those of you who&#8217;ve never heard of Luke Leighfield he is an independent pop musician from Southampton and has played over 600 gigs, released 4 albums, a variety of EP&#8217;s and is a generally great guy!</p>
<p>Last year Luke asked his fans to fund his new album &#8216;<strong>New Season&#8217; </strong>before its recording process. Luke offered a variety of options ranging from a copy of the CD upon release to having Luke phone you up or write you a song. After seeing countless tweets, updates and photos (and eventually hearing a couple of songs) New Season became one of my most anticipated albums for a long time.</p>
<p>After a year of waiting on Monday I received my digital download of the album and today in the post came a nicely packaged &#8216;New Season&#8217; envelope containing my CD copy of the album, some stickers, a poster (with personalised greeting) and some postcards (you don&#8217;t get that from major labels!).</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve listened to the album quite a lot over the last few days and thought<strong> I&#8217;d post a review so here it is&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>New Season comes in a beautifully designed digipack with a 20 page photo-booklet and lyrics sheets and contains 10 songs.</p>
<p>The album has a more spiritual side to it than &#8216;Have You Got Heart?&#8217; and both musically and lyrically feels more mature but without losing the energy that &#8216;Have You Got Heart?&#8217; had. Throughout the album there is this theme of slowing down and making time and as a listener you find yourself feeling both challenged by this and part of the journey that Luke has been on in writing these songs. There&#8217;s a real authenticity that comes across in Luke&#8217;s lyrics on this album which you don&#8217;t find often on albums.</p>
<p>Personally I think my favourite tracks on the album are &#8216;New Season&#8217;, Garde Ta Foy&#8217; and &#8216;The One Thing&#8217; but there&#8217;s actually not a weak track on the album. &#8216;New Season&#8217; has some immensely rawkus moments such as the crescendo in &#8216;The One Thing&#8217; which, on full blast in the car is amazing!</p>
<p>Overall I think &#8216;New Season&#8217; is a cracking album. For new listeners of Luke Leighfield I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s as easy to listen to as &#8216;Have You Got Heart?&#8217; but it&#8217;s certainly worth listening to, buying and recommending to others (and if you get a chance go and <a href="http://www.songkick.com/artists/337131-luke-leighfield" target="_blank">see Luke live</a> too!)</p>
<p><strong>Links: </strong><a href="http://www.lukeleighfield.com" target="_blank">Luke&#8217;s Website </a>| <a href="http://lukeleighfield.tumblr.com/newseason" target="_blank">Stream &#8216;New Season&#8217; here</a> | <a href="http://gotgotneed.bigcartel.com/" target="_blank">Buy the CD and a variety of goodies here</a></p>
<p><strong>Shameless Plug: </strong>Finally my album &#8216;Escape This Town&#8217; is out on the 19th March in it&#8217;s fully remastered/re-recorded glory. You&#8217;ll be able to get it <a href="http://marktiddy.bandcamp.com" target="_blank">here</a> on the 19th March and you can <a href="http://marktiddy.bigcartel.com" target="_blank">pre-order the CD here </a>now! (For full info on the release <a href="http://www.marktiddy.co.uk/escapethistown" target="_blank">go here</a>)</p>
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		<title>Fairtrade Fortnight 2012</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2012 12:54:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark Tiddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Once again we&#8217;re in Fairtrade Fortnight. The 2 weeks of the year when the Fairtrade Foundation make a big push to get people to choose more Fairtrade items and raise awareness. Fairtrade is an absolutely cracking idea for so many reasons. It pays people properly, invests in communities, treats people fairly, means no child labour [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Once again we&#8217;re in <strong>Fairtrade Fortnight</strong>. The 2 weeks of the year when the Fairtrade Foundation make a big push to get people to choose more Fairtrade items and raise awareness.</p>
<p>Fairtrade is an absolutely cracking idea for so many reasons. It pays people properly, invests in communities, treats people fairly, means no child labour and lots more besides.</p>
<p>I urge you to get <strong>involved</strong> in Fairtrade. <strong>Buy</strong> Fairtrade tea, coffee, bananas, chocolate, clothing. <strong>Pester</strong> your local shops to stock more Fairtrade items. <strong>Ask</strong> your supermarket to make their own brand stuff Fairtrade (Sainsburys is really leading the way in this!).</p>
<p><strong>Check out the 2012 campaign video</strong> below and <a href="http://step.fairtrade.org.uk/" target="_blank">get involved here</a>. I&#8217;ll be posting my step for Fairtrade later this week!</p>
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		<title>East Riding Youth Summit</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2011 17:47:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark Tiddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Regular readers of my blog will know that a desire to see the church change and to see more young people through the doors are things that I&#8217;m passionate about. A few months ago myself and Lee Kirkby (Youth Minister at Beverley Minster) were having a bit of the grumble about church&#8230;if I&#8217;m honest even [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="https://fbcdn-profile-a.akamaihd.net/hprofile-ak-snc4/276868_130612100360415_6977017_n.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="139" /> Regular readers of my blog will know that a desire to see the church change and to see more young people through the doors are things that I&#8217;m passionate about.</p>
<p>A few months ago myself and Lee Kirkby (Youth Minister at Beverley Minster) were having a bit of the grumble about church&#8230;if I&#8217;m honest even though I&#8217;ve made it through youth groups, I&#8217;ve trained as a youth worker (and explored theology at university) and I work for a church I still often find church irrelevant&#8230;alongside this the lack of 20&#8242;s and 30&#8242;s in our church is frustrating when I know there are some people of that age range in our village.</p>
<p>The outcome of this grumble with Lee was that we both went away and thought &#8216;<em>hang on&#8230;we should really do something about this rather that just moaning&#8217;</em> and so we have!</p>
<p>Next Saturday from 10am until 1pm at Beverley Minster we&#8217;re running the <strong>East Riding Youth Summit. </strong>An event aimed at getting young people aged 15-25 and church leaders (Ministers, PCC Members etc.) together, joined by the Bishop of Hull to spend some time discussing how the church needs to change to welcome in more young people and what both church leaders and young people can do to influence that.</p>
<p>As a follow-up we&#8217;re going to write up everything that&#8217;s said into a report format and send it to the young people and to their churches&#8217; PCC&#8217;s as a way of saying &#8216;<em>there were young people from <strong>your </strong>church at this event and this is what they think about bringing more young people into the church&#8217;.</em></p>
<p>Personally I&#8217;m really excited about this event and think it can have a big impact&#8230;if you&#8217;re in the East Riding come along!</p>
<p><strong>Finally&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>I know I don&#8217;t usually use this blog for work stuff but this seems to combine work and personal passions&#8230;also if you&#8217;re interested you can <a href="http://www.marktiddy.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/summit_radio.mp3" target="_blank">click here </a>to <strong>hear me talking about the Youth Summit and young people in the church on BBC Radio Humberside this morning.</strong></p>
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		<title>This Guy is Amazing!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 21:14:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Monday whilst I was doing the first session of my Oasis Esteem training in London they showed this video, I&#8217;ve seen it before but it is simply amazing and so inspiring so thought I&#8217;d share it! Enjoy! &#160;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On Monday whilst I was doing the first session of my Oasis Esteem training in London they showed this video, I&#8217;ve seen it before but it is simply amazing and so inspiring so thought I&#8217;d share it! Enjoy!</p>
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		<title>Resolution Complete!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jul 2011 16:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve never been a big fan of new years resolutions however set myself just 1 this year and that was simply to do at least 1 gig. The thing is whilst I&#8217;ve led worship a variety of times I&#8217;ve never played my own stuff live nor really been the solo vocalist but really wanted to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve never been a big fan of new years resolutions however set myself just 1 this year and that was simply to do at least 1 gig. The thing is whilst I&#8217;ve led worship a variety of times I&#8217;ve never played my own stuff live nor really been the solo vocalist but really wanted to begin performing my own stuff.</p>
<p>So last night at the youth event I&#8217;m involved with running alongside <a href="http://www.lukeleighfield.com" target="_blank">Luke Leighfield</a> who was headlining and a variety of young people performing myself and Rob did a short acoustic set consisting of covers of Plus 44&#8242;s &#8216;When Your Heart Stops Beating&#8217; and Rihanna&#8217;s &#8216;Umbrella&#8217; and we performed an original song called &#8216;Not Trying To Say&#8217; which I wrote a few months back as part of my &#8216;Thirteen Months&#8217; project which I wanna start recording next year.</p>
<p>It wasn&#8217;t as scary as I expected, we sounded pretty good and hopefully it&#8217;ll be the first of many gig-type-things!</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a photo (<a href="http://marktiddy.co.uk/photography/?album=SPARKYouReInTheSpotlight">more here</a>)&#8230;there&#8217;s also a video someone took which I&#8217;ll upload to my YouTube when I get the video</p>
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		<title>Youth Club to Church &#8211; A Journey?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jun 2011 21:46:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[About 4 months ago after much debate as a church we started an open youth club on a Tuesday night. It started with 6 young people and over the past 4 months has grown to an average of about 20 a week&#8230;it&#8217;s nothing revolutionary&#8230;it&#8217;s a simple youth club: somewhere to hang out, tuck shop, pool [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>About 4 months ago after much debate as a church we started an open youth club on a Tuesday night. It started with 6 young people and over the past 4 months has grown to an average of about 20 a week&#8230;it&#8217;s nothing revolutionary&#8230;it&#8217;s a simple youth club: somewhere to hang out, tuck shop, pool table, table tennis, table football and a Wii but it&#8217;s brilliant!</p>
<p><strong>Ethos</strong></p>
<p>The ethos behind the youth club was always to be something run by us <em>as a church</em> and therefore with Christian leaders with the aim of not babysitting but building relationships with the young people we get along. My link in school meant that a lot of the young people recognised me anyway and add into this Christian assemblies which I do and all the young people know I&#8217;m a Christian and even ask me why I had an egg smashed on my head (an Easter assembly on sacrifice!).</p>
<p><strong>Bridging the Gap</strong></p>
<p>Of course ultimately it would be fantastic if each of these young people ended up with a relationship with Christ however there is no faith-based input within the youth club other than the occasional conversation based on things that have been left in the hall from church or something I&#8217;ve done or said in assembly at school it seems unlikely.</p>
<p>The jump between our unstructured youth club and our faith based groups is huge and so the question that I remain with is:</p>
<blockquote><p>How will these young people make the jump between coming to a church-run youth club and a relationship with God?</p></blockquote>
<p>I don&#8217;t really have the answers but I do know there are some fantastic inbetween events which I&#8217;m hoping to encourage young people along to&#8230;by this I mean events which have some Christian input but are perhaps filled with live music or an event at a theme park (such as Alton Tower&#8217;s &#8216;Big Event&#8217; or the Diocese of York and Lightwater Valley&#8217;s &#8216;XLS&#8217;). These events seem to provide an opportunity for young people to have a taste of spirituality at the same time as being somewhere exciting and maybe they&#8217;re where it&#8217;s at (whatever &#8216;it&#8217; is!).</p>
<p><em>I guess biblically Jesus didn&#8217;t do that much converting just conversing!</em></p>
<p>Out of the ten guys who Jesus casts demons out of only 1 comes back to say thank you and even then we&#8217;re not told that this man gave up his life to Christ and repented of his sins&#8230;the woman caught in adultery doesn&#8217;t become born-again but is simply told by Jesus to &#8216;go and sin no-more&#8217;.</p>
<p>I wonder if rather than aiming for conversions we should be aiming to build relationships, to show Christ in our own lives, to show love, compassion and care to these young people, to engage them in conversation about faith and to see where their journey leads&#8230;I have no doubt from my work in a chaplaincy project in school that young people want to know more about faith and that they&#8217;re asking the questions&#8230;it&#8217;s just a case of whether their asking <strong><em>has </em></strong>to lead to us praying &#8216;the prayer&#8217; or not?</p>
<p>At a PCC I spoke at for one of the supporting churches of Hunsley Christian Youth Trust I was asked how many people we&#8217;d had &#8216;coming to the LORD&#8217; as a result of the work and the honest answer is none <strong>but </strong>young people are engaging with questions about faith and hopefully that will ultimately lead somewhere.</p>
<p>I guess the general conclusion might be <strong>conversation not conversion!</strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Anyway </em></strong>those are just some thoughts&#8230;comments?</p>
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		<title>The Internet &amp; My Faith Formation</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 May 2011 16:05:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Earlier this week I spent 2 days on a Scripture Union on a residential for associate trust workers and we spent some time exploring the idea of ministry in a digital age and in doing so looked at how the current generation are growing up in a world where they don&#8217;t remember not having computers [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Earlier this week I spent 2 days on a Scripture Union on a residential for associate trust workers and we spent some time exploring the idea of ministry in a digital age and in doing so looked at how the current generation are growing up in a world where they don&#8217;t remember not having computers or mobile phones.</p>
<p>If I&#8217;m honest I think I probably join this group of <strong>digital natives </strong>(as they call them). We got our first home PC when I was about 8 but we&#8217;d always had computers at school up until that point and now my life is fully wired thanks to a collection of devices and websites.</p>
<p>However in all the thinking about this digital world I was reflecting on some of my own experiences of technology and faith.</p>
<p>Of course back when I was 16/7 Facebook didn&#8217;t exist&#8230;Bebo and Myspace did but neither did a huge amount however the most exciting place for me to be online was the Norwich Youth for Christ forum. In fact many of the people on that forum are people I still keep in contact with today.</p>
<p>As a young person exploring faith the NYFC forum gave me a place I could ask questions and explore ideas in a safe place (thanks to the moderators who lurked around keeping everything nice and friendly and sharing their wisdom) and I can truly reflect now and appreciate the chance it gave me to ask things that in all fairness I may have never got an opportunity to ask at youth group (so thank you Mark Tuma!).</p>
<p><em>But what role does the internet have on the faith formation of young people today?</em></p>
<p>My main critique of Facebook is that it&#8217;s stole traffic! The NYFC forum and CROPS Forum (which I helped to start in my gap year and eventually close a few years back) got quieter and quieter. I guess the novelty of hanging out somewhere online has gone and whilst I can&#8217;t fault Facebook for moving people I do feel like that opportunity to ask questions online has gone because even the discussion threads on Facebook don&#8217;t get used a huge amount.</p>
<p><strong>Some ideas&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>I still believe the internet has a huge role to play in the faith formation on young people. The answer to every question can be found on google but this is risky so is there a place youth workers and young people can engage in faith conversation? Here&#8217;s a couple of ideas;</p>
<p><strong>Formspring &#8211; </strong>Whilst fairly annoying I think youth workers can use the opportunity to link it to Facebook and encourage young people to ask questions anonymously on it&#8230;it&#8217;s got potential but probably not for real discussion.</p>
<p><strong>Facebook Page and Status &#8211; </strong>Perhaps the simple answer is to post a question on your Facebook page and wait for the comments&#8230;is this what detached youth work on Facebook looks like? (probably not)</p>
<p><strong>Forum &#8211; </strong>Is the web forum really dead? I&#8217;m a little bit tempted to create one and find out!</p>
<p>Anymore thoughts?</p>
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		<title>Church: Shall we give up and leave?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Mar 2011 18:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Thursday I went on a retreat day with a group of other youth workers from the York Diocese and it was nice to have a chance to sit back and reflect for the day. However one thing I seem to notice is that whatever youth worker&#8217;s get together sooner or later we seem to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On Thursday I went on a retreat day with a group of other youth workers from the York Diocese and it was nice to have a chance to sit back and reflect for the day. However one thing I seem to notice is that whatever youth worker&#8217;s get together sooner or later we seem to come onto the state of the church and our disappointment with it and having spent the car journey home listening to a sermon from <a href="http://www.scumoftheearth.net/" target="_blank">Scum of the Earth</a> church I tweeted this upon arriving home.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.twitter.com/marktiddy"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1676" title="mytweet" src="http://marktiddy.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/mytweet.png" alt="" width="530" height="106" /></a></p>
<p>When I tweeted this I didn&#8217;t expect anything more than perhaps a few Facebook &#8216;Likes&#8217; if even that however following a retweet by cartoonist (amongst other things) Dave Walker the response looked like this:</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1678" title="whatthepeoplesay" src="http://marktiddy.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/whatthepeoplesay1.png" alt="" width="532" height="552" /></p>
<p>This response for me suggests that it&#8217;s not just me and a bunch of York diocese youth workers who feel this way but a variety of church go-ers everywhere (perhaps the majority of the 20&#8242;s/30&#8242;s age group have already answered my blog title and left) which begs the question.</p>
<p><strong><em>If so many of us feel disappointed, let down and side-lined by institutionalised church then why do we even bother going?</em></strong></p>
<p>Obviously the good Christian and theological answer is that church isn&#8217;t about getting something from it ourselves but about reaching out to others and giving to God and I completely agree with that principal however if as William Temple said</p>
<blockquote><p>church is the only organisation that exists for the benefit of it&#8217;s non-members</p></blockquote>
<p>then church massively fails (in the majority of cases).</p>
<p>There are so many stories of people wanting to change the church but failing because the majority of the church want things as they always have been.</p>
<p>The problem is that those <em>radicals in the church who want to see the church dramatically transformed into the <strong>welcoming, Jesus-bursting, heart of the community that it should be</strong></em> can easily find themselves just going along with our <em>closed, culturally out-of-date, in-reality-not-that-welcoming church</em> not because their passion has died but because there appears to be no way to change the church. That or these radicals end up burnt out through frustration and inevitably join the huge list of those who&#8217;ve lef the church.</p>
<p><strong>Comfortable Church</strong></p>
<p>I guess the route of the problem is that church has become comfortable. We want to go there, have a nice cosy time, sing a few familiar hymns and go home again&#8230;we daren&#8217;t expect that church is going to change our lives or challenge us. Francis Scott, who preached at the church I went to this morning said (in his sermon) &#8216;<em>the church has become a cruise ship&#8217; </em>and I guess he&#8217;s right.</p>
<p>The problem with this cruise ship church is that we&#8217;re stuck with a church that is generally unwilling to change or even afraid to change&#8230;we&#8217;re just floating along nicely, thank you.</p>
<p>The biggest frustration I have as a youth worker (alongside sadly seeing young people throw their faith away over impulsive temptations) is that whilst it&#8217;s fantastic to see young people coming to Christ the fact is that when they hit 18 or leave university and student church at some point they&#8217;re going to either drift away or have to find a mainstream church.</p>
<p><strong>Can we change the church?</strong></p>
<p>In short I guess the answer (<em>typed with a huge amount of doubt</em>) is <strong>yes</strong>. I wholeheartedly believe that many aspects of church aren&#8217;t how God wants them, that there are thousands of people out there who&#8217;d have a relationship with Jesus were it not for the selfishness of Christians.</p>
<p>If we want to be bringing people into the kingdom our churches <strong>shouldn&#8217;t be side-lining</strong> people. <strong>One of the most beautiful experiences of church I&#8217;ve been part of was at Park Road in Peterborough</strong> where during an evening service a homeless, completely drunk man came and sat in the service and whilst he didn&#8217;t remotely fit in with the &#8216;norm&#8217; and was noisy was allowed to be there and even picked a random hymn after requesting &#8216;how great thou art&#8217;. On top of that St Barnabas&#8217; in Swanland this morning had organised a mini-bus so some disabled members of the community could come to church. Now <strong>that&#8217;s </strong>what I&#8217;m talking about!</p>
<p><strong>If church really is about a group of people who have a relationship with Jesus then it shouldn&#8217;t be boring</strong>. If someone is passionate about something you can hear it in their voice and see it in their hearts as they talk about it and <strong>that </strong>is exciting. If we&#8217;re a church of people genuinely passionate about Christ then church shouldn&#8217;t be boring. I can&#8217;t help but feel all too often our services are based on tradition and not passion. (<a href="http://marktiddy.co.uk/2010/12/07/church-boring-irrelevant/" target="_blank">More on passion in this post</a>)</p>
<p><strong>Some final thoughts&#8230;</strong></p>
<p><em>So what would happen if everyone who was bored, let down or side-lined by the church stopped coming?</em></p>
<p>I strongly suspect we&#8217;d lose the majority of our congregations and probably a huge chunk of our church leaders (certainly a load of youth workers*). However I don&#8217;t know that we should give up and go. One of the responses on Facebook was</p>
<blockquote><p>Any ideas 4 radical changes then?</p></blockquote>
<p>and the answer to that is <strong>yes! </strong></p>
<p>I can&#8217;t tell you how a church should be&#8230;I can&#8217;t blog a perfect order of service or a list of songs that will make the church perfect but I can come back to that quote I used earlier from William Temple who said &#8216;<strong><em>church is the only organisation that exists for it&#8217;s non-members&#8217; .</em></strong></p>
<p>Our churches need to be examining ourselves (and I don&#8217;t mean a &#8216;well we&#8217;re doing x, y, z so we must be good) completely, honestly and really asking ourselves if that is true for our church because if it&#8217;s not then we need to do some re-thinking. If we&#8217;re changing a service or introducing something new then the fact that someone is complaining about it shouldn&#8217;t matter, we should be asking whether or not it is beneficial for those who don&#8217;t already know Christ.</p>
<p>Church shouldn&#8217;t feel odd and weird for new comers but should feel like home.</p>
<p><strong><em>I think those are my thoughts although as always feel free to comment and I may find myself developing my thoughts more.</em></strong></p>
<p><em>* this isn&#8217;t to say that youth worker&#8217;s aren&#8217;t whole-heartily passionate about Christ and don&#8217;t believe in the cause but to say that that actually they feel that the church doesn&#8217;t cut it&#8230;there&#8217;s a difference!</em></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2011 22:42:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This article on the BBC News site today details how a Christian couple were denied the opportunity to foster children because they didn&#8217;t believe that homosexuality was right (read full article here). Ignoring the pro or anti homosexuality debate this court ruling is ridiculous! In this country we are short of people willing to adopt [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-derbyshire-12598896" target="_blank">This article</a> on the BBC News site today details how a Christian couple were denied the opportunity to foster children because they didn&#8217;t believe that homosexuality was right (read full article <a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-derbyshire-12598896" target="_blank">here</a>).</p>
<p>Ignoring the pro or anti homosexuality debate this court ruling is <strong><em>ridiculous!</em></strong></p>
<p>In this country we are short of people willing to adopt or foster children by tens of thousands and here is a council turning down a couple based on one view that they have.</p>
<p>In my work as a youth worker I&#8217;ve met broken young people&#8230;young people beaten by their parents, young people introduced to drugs by their parents, young people who&#8217;ve stole (as taught by their parents) and plenty more bad habits picked up from their parents which they believe is okay.</p>
<p>To top that off some of those young people have children and you&#8217;ve only got to watch the Jeremy Kyle show to see that the cycle keeps on going.</p>
<p>Yet here we have a respectable couple with experience of looking after children being they can&#8217;t foster because they don&#8217;t agree with homosexuality&#8230;seriously if we put the best interest of these children in place rather than calling the thought police then perhaps we&#8217;d have more people fostering, more happy children and a few less problems in the world.</p>
<p>Rant over!</p>
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		<title>The Joy of Teen Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Feb 2011 23:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Upon the recommendation of youth work magazine I&#8217;ve been tuning in to several episodes of Channel 4&#8242;s &#8216;The Joy of Teen Sex&#8217;; a TV show which aims to discuss teen sex problems and experiences using a team of experts in an open an honest way using their &#8216;sex shop&#8217;. If you haven&#8217;t seen it then [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://blog.zhooshbrighton.co.uk/files/2011/01/the-joy-of-teen-sex1.jpg" alt="" width="285" height="214" />Upon the recommendation of youth work magazine I&#8217;ve been tuning in to several episodes of Channel 4&#8242;s &#8216;The Joy of Teen Sex&#8217;; a TV show which aims to discuss teen sex problems and experiences using a team of experts in an open an honest way using their &#8216;sex shop&#8217;.</p>
<p>If you haven&#8217;t seen it then the chances are as you watch it you&#8217;ll suddenly feel like you&#8217;ve become Jeremy Kyle and be shocked at it&#8230;that or you&#8217;ll wonder why your teenage life wasn&#8217;t like that!</p>
<p><strong>Statistics</strong></p>
<p>The statistics on the show feel very biased. As a youth worker I know that a lot of the stats they use have probably been produced by asking a very select group of young people. To top that off if you apply the American Pie &#8216;rule of 3&#8242; to the statistics then I suspect you&#8217;re far closer to the facts.</p>
<p><strong>Approach Of The Show</strong></p>
<p>To an extent I think it&#8217;s important that we&#8217;re coming out and saying &#8216;yes teenagers are having sex&#8217; and addressing some of the issues in the show such as being uncomfortable with aspects of your body and practicing safe sex&#8230;addressing the issue of drugs and alcohol in sex are also important however I can&#8217;t help but feel the show is a little to flippant and casual.</p>
<p>The general feeling of the show is that young people are taking part in sex&#8230;but not just sex but in drugs and alcohol around sex and also having multiple partners, threesomes etc. <strong>My problem </strong>with this is that it feels like it&#8217;s just too accepting and in particular for ordinary teenagers watching <em><strong>I think it can create an unrealistic expectation of sex</strong></em> and also <strong><em>encourage young people to feel pressured into having sex earlier on and with more people</em></strong>.</p>
<p><strong>Teen Journalist &#8216;Billie&#8217;</strong></p>
<p>One aspect of the show which I think has been positive is features with teen journalist Billie who whilst isn&#8217;t a gifted interviewer (or especially engaging for that matter) is very honest and perhaps more realistic in her approach. For example Billie has explored glamor modeling, pole dancing and drugs, alcohol and sex. Unlike the rest of the show the young journalist has talked to people who use them, had some experiences (where appropriate) and made a very honest and open opinion about them&#8230;often saying that she wouldn&#8217;t do it or just doesn&#8217;t get it and in my opinion for young people watching the show this is the most useful section&#8230;Billie makes it acceptable to not like what everyone else is doing.</p>
<p><strong>Overall&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Overall I think &#8216;The Joy of Teen Sex&#8217; is a scary programme. I think it&#8217;s a risky and potentially damaging programme for young people to watch and probably scary for parents. As a youth worker it does make me aware of some issues facing young people and is certainly worth watching from an informative perspective but the attitude it promotes towards sex is just that little bit too accepting and encouraging for my liking.</p>
<p><em>Have you seen it? Thoughts? Comments?</em></p>
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		<title>Church: Boring &amp; Irrelevant</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been going to church ever since I can remember&#8230;I&#8217;ve survived Sunday school, enjoyed youth groups and sat through countless church services full of standing up, sitting down and singing songs written long before anyone in church can remember&#8230;.to add to this I&#8217;ve heard plenty of drivel from the newer song writers and if I&#8217;m [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_u2OYhL0e6bM/SgsZnbfsCoI/AAAAAAAAAZA/yIEzOmUrER4/s320/6a011168a5c196970c011168c67c43970c-320wi.jpg" alt="" width="311" height="301" />I&#8217;ve been going to church ever since I can remember&#8230;I&#8217;ve survived Sunday school, enjoyed youth groups and sat through countless church services full of standing up, sitting down and singing songs written long before anyone in church can remember&#8230;.to add to this I&#8217;ve heard plenty of drivel from the newer song writers and <em><strong>if I&#8217;m being completely honest</strong></em> I often find church <strong>boring </strong>and <strong>irrelevant.</strong></p>
<p>As a youth worker for a Christian charity one of my concerns is not that the young people we have going to youth groups now don&#8217;t go to church but that they will <em>never</em> go to church (when I say church I don&#8217;t mean a Sunday service but a gathering of Christians).</p>
<p>This means that the youth groups I meet with whether it&#8217;s our 11-14&#8242;s group, Rock Solid group or Christian Union in school are all as much church as a Sunday morning service however <strong>what&#8217;s next?</strong> Maybe they&#8217;ll find trendy university churches but sooner or later they probably have to come back to the reality that generally church isn&#8217;t exciting.</p>
<p><strong>I had a conversation </strong>with someone recently about someone who became a Christian and went to church for a while but always remarked &#8216;<em><strong>Why does it have to be so boring?&#8217;</strong></em><strong>. </strong>This wasn&#8217;t a young person either and that person eventually gave up.</p>
<p><em><strong>And along came the emerging Church&#8230;</strong></em></p>
<p>Emerging church is a title is basically thrown at any &#8216;church&#8217; gathering that isn&#8217;t a hymn sandwich.It might refer to cafe church, some kind of family fun day or a whole variety of &#8216;very slightly off the wall&#8217; church events and <em><strong>whilst I love the idea of proper coffee and a informal church these things often miss the point.</strong></em></p>
<p>These emerging churches can often become nothing more than a social gathering with the addition of s<em>omething so watered down</em> it&#8217;s barely a Christian message.</p>
<p><strong>The Problem is this&#8230;</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>If church becomes something so <strong>boring</strong> that people switch off then we lose the &#8216;life in all its fullness&#8217; that Christ promises. The freedom we&#8217;re meant to receive in Christ becomes nothing more than a chore of sitting through an hour of dullness a week.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>If church becomes something so <strong>irrelevant </strong>that the event is nothing more than a social event with a watered-down, half-arsed attempt at proclaiming the greatness of Jesus then it is equally as pointless as the church that is boring.</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>The Gospel</strong></p>
<p>The message that Jesus brought to people was neither boring or irrelevant. It was a life changing encounter. It caused people to do crazy things like selling their possessions and looking after the poor. It caused people to have a conviction so strong about having Jesus in their lives that they <strong>were willing to die for the cause</strong>.</p>
<p><strong>A Passionless Church</strong></p>
<p>On Sunday Jo and myself visited Emmanuel Church in Durham for no other reason than googling a church to visit whilst there and the format of the church was pretty similar to most (other than the coffee before the service which gave us a chance to feel welcomed in) however the difference was the passion oozing from the people.</p>
<p>The people at Emmanuel Church genuinely cared about Christ and you could <em>see it in their actions and hear it in their voices</em>.</p>
<p>The problem is that the majority of our churches lack passion.</p>
<p>The word passion comes from the Greek word <strong>Pathos </strong>and translated means <em><strong>something worth dying for.</strong></em></p>
<p><strong>Does church present us with a Jesus worth dying for? </strong>Does church present us with a Christian life that causes us to be passionate people&#8230;people who are so convicted by the gospel message and so filled with the Holy Spiirt that they simply cannot even talk about Jesus without it being obvious that this is something they really care about?</p>
<p><strong>The fact is our churches need passion.</strong></p>
<p>Yes some people express themselves differently but sooner or later with people you can find the buttons to push&#8230;for some people I know that button is the word &#8216;Fairtrade&#8217;, for others it&#8217;s the mention of homophobia and for some it might even be how dangerous the roads are with the ice at the moment.</p>
<p>Everyone has a button that when you push it they burst into life&#8230;passionately telling you about something they&#8217;re angered about, or excited about or something that they care so much about they simply can&#8217;t stay monotone.</p>
<p><em><strong>How many people in our churches are like that with Jesus?</strong></em></p>
<p><em><strong>How many of our churches repeat liturgy as if their life depends on it?</strong></em></p>
<p><em><strong>How many people are so passionate about the gospel that they will do anything to spread it?</strong></em></p>
<p>I&#8217;m not talking about people waving their arms in worship (although it does say passion), I&#8217;m not talking about speaking in tongues (although it&#8217;s God bubbling up from our very souls), I&#8217;m not even talking about people shouting or saying &#8216;yes Lord&#8217; during prayers (although both say passion)&#8230;I&#8217;m talking about people being excited!</p>
<p>People being passionate.</p>
<p><strong>And so yes&#8230;church is boring and irrelevant</strong> (a lot of the time) but it doesn&#8217;t have to be turned completely upside down to be appealing to people I think often it&#8217;s as simple as people wanting what we&#8217;ve got. People looking for something to be passionate about. People finding that passion in Jesus.</p>
<p>Emerging church is fantastic if it&#8217;s passionate as is an average Sunday morning service. If church is boring then we&#8217;ve really missed the point.</p>
<p>Our word passion comes from the Greek &#8216;Pathos&#8217; which means &#8216;Something worth dying for&#8217;</p>
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		<title>Relevant Christianity</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Nov 2010 20:54:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mark Tiddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This morning just before breakfast there was a knock on the door. I opened it and standing on our doorstep/the street was a nicely dressed couple. The lady, who was clutching a red leather clad bible greeted me by saying &#8216;We&#8217;ve just come to share the good news of the gospel&#8217;. She then asked me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://www.cartoonstock.com/newscartoons/cartoonists/dpa/lowres/dpan981l.jpg" alt="" width="284" height="400" />This morning just before breakfast there was a knock on the door. I opened it and standing on our doorstep/the street was a nicely dressed couple. The lady, who was clutching a red leather clad bible greeted me by saying &#8216;<em>We&#8217;ve just come to share the good news of the gospel&#8217;.</em></p>
<p>She then asked me what I thought would happen at the end of the world to which I responded &#8216;<em>I think Jesus will return and there will be a new heaven and a new earth&#8217;</em>&#8230;I also informed her that I was a youth worker for the local church.</p>
<p>She then told me that it&#8217;s nice that there will be somewhere with no evil eventually, bid me good day and went on to knock at my next door neighbours&#8230;who I knew were out!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve blogged before on where I stand with street preachers and lovely as this lady was (although I don&#8217;t really know if she was a Christian of JW!) I&#8217;m not convinced it&#8217;s relevant and here lies the problem&#8230;<strong>for many people Christianity is irrelevant.</strong> (I sometimes include myself in that category).</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been to a few things on emerging church&#8230;I&#8217;ve chatted with people about cafe church and pub church&#8230;I&#8217;ve seen young people take part in social action projects and all these things are great but the church as a whole is stuck!</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re not a Christian entering into a church can be a scary prospect&#8230;you have to know when to stand and sit, you have to try and work out what phrases such as &#8216;<em>blood of the lamb&#8217; </em>actually mean and in all of this you have to follow the leader.</p>
<p><strong>Don&#8217;t get me wrong&#8230;there is a place for sermons </strong>but we&#8217;re still preaching sermons on lost sheep&#8230;Jesus talked about lost sheep because he was surrounded by shepherds who related to it&#8230;I have never lost a sheep (although I fully accept that I&#8217;m only 24 and still have lots of time to find myself in a sheep-losing situation).</p>
<p><strong>In Acts </strong>Paul walks into Athens (from memory) and wanders around and spots a statue labeled &#8216;<em>to an unknown god&#8217; </em>and so when he gets up to preach later he doesn&#8217;t share a story about sheep or a lost coin he tells them who this unknown god actually is&#8230;.and tells them about Jesus in a way which is relevant!</p>
<p><em><strong>So what does this look like in the 21st century?</strong></em></p>
<p>The key thing for our gospel message today is that <strong>people are relational. </strong>We are in constant contact with people. <strong>We check in, we post status&#8217; and we comment on people&#8217;s activities </strong>on Facebook<strong>, we send instant tweets and photos </strong>on Twitter, <strong>we sign in on 4square</strong>, we may even be old school enough to update our <strong>myspace!</strong></p>
<p>Our communication is instant and works both ways&#8230;there&#8217;s even lectures that have twitter feeds running in the background.</p>
<p>This is where cafe church and pub church are such good ideas&#8230;because they&#8217;re relational&#8230;it&#8217;s the same with social action&#8230;it&#8217;s about meeting people&#8217;s physical &amp; emotional needs as well as spiritual.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll finish this post with <strong>a story that one of my uni lecturers told us;</strong></p>
<p>In the story a young, enthusiastic Christian approaches a tower block with his bible in hand ready to convert some people. The first door he goes to is opened by a woman, cigarette in mouth, grubby baby in the other&#8230;he starts his rehearsed talk &#8216;<em>I&#8217;ve come to tell you about the good news of Jes&#8230;.&#8217; </em>and the door is slammed in his face.</p>
<p>Feeling disgruntled and upset he sits down outside and begins to cry&#8230;then suddenly <strong>an idea comes to him</strong>. So he gets up, goes to the local shop and buys a packet of cigarettes and a pack of nappies. He goes back to the lady&#8217;s house, knocks on the door again and simply says &#8216;I&#8217;ve come to help you&#8217;.</p>
<p>That afternoon <strong>he changes the baby, helps tidy and smokes </strong>(having never smoked in his life) <em><strong>and it&#8217;s when he turns to leave that the lady says &#8216;Why have you done this?&#8217; </strong></em>and he tells her about Jesus.</p>
<p>We need a church that&#8217;s relevant to people&#8230;I&#8217;m not convinced that church as we know it really works anymore for those outside the Christian bubble and I certainly don&#8217;t believe it&#8217;s right to mold them into our church mold.</p>
<p><em>It&#8217;s amazing what thoughts a Saturday morning door knocker can have!</em></p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Oct 2010 20:05:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most people will be familiar with the catchy pop hit &#8216;Fireflies&#8217; by Owl City aka Adam Young. Fireflies stuck at number one for several weeks earlier this year. Shortly after this period of time a campaign to get Delirious?&#8217;s &#8216;History Maker&#8217; to number one for Easter was launched and finished at number 4 (I think). [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1567" title="blog20-1" src="http://marktiddy.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/blog20-1.jpg" alt="" width="268" height="245" />Most people will be familiar with the catchy pop hit &#8216;Fireflies&#8217; by Owl City aka Adam Young. Fireflies stuck at number one for several weeks earlier this year. Shortly after this period of time a campaign to get Delirious?&#8217;s &#8216;History Maker&#8217; to number one for Easter was launched and finished at number 4 (I think).</p>
<p>Regular readers of this blog will know of my dislike at the whole Delirious campaign&#8230;the ethos behind the campaign was silly and the song itself is basically meaningless unless you&#8217;re a Christian or willing to go through lots of Christian jargon to grasp an understanding and more to the point we&#8217;d already had a Christian at number 1 with a song that millions of people purchased because they wanted too and not because of social networking.</p>
<p>Now on Monday over on the Owl City Blog (<a href="http://owlcityblog.com/" target="_blank">link</a>) Adam Young posted a cover of &#8216;In Christ Alone&#8217; and included the lyrics and said this about the song;</p>
<blockquote><p>I’m twenty four years old, yet something about this song makes me bawl  like a baby. The way the melodies and lyrics swirl together is so  poignant and beautiful.</p></blockquote>
<p>The thing that I love about this cover is that it&#8217;s not trying to be something it isn&#8217;t&#8230;it&#8217;s not a quirky &#8216;experimental&#8217; cover (although sounds about as experimental as the Rend Collective Experiment) it is simply a cover. <strong>The reason I love the cover</strong> so much is not so much the song he chose (although lyrically it is mind blowing) but that here we have a young musician who is popular in the secular and Christian world posting a cover of a Christian song on his blog and linking it to millions of fans via Twitter and Facebook.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s face it a song on the radio can pass you by but b<strong>ands have some crazy fans</strong>&#8230;if Adam Young says &#8216;this whole Christian thing is actually worth it&#8217; then there&#8217;s gotta be a fair few people who <strong>think about it a bit more&#8230;maybe look into it&#8230;maybe even become Christians as a result.</strong></p>
<p><em>So hats off to Adam Young and well done for being a Christian artist willing to post something different from his usual stuff to a mixed, worldwide fan-base&#8230;let&#8217;s hope it has an impact</em></p>
<p><strong>You can listen/download to Adam&#8217;s Cover and read the post<a href="http://owlcityblog.com/2010/10/25/my-hope-is-found/" target="_blank"> here</a></strong></p>
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